Wednesday, July 28, 2010

Reality Revised: Digital Augmentation


Here's the truth:

"Girls reported magazines as their primary source of information regarding diet and health."

Unfortunately, magazines are an excessively unfair representation of the actual female body.  Airbrushed, reshaped, and digitally reduced, there's nothing but unrealistic expectation left for the readers.


Here's the results:

"A majority of girls in a 1999 study (59 percent) reported dissatisfaction with their body shape, and 66 percent expressed a desire to lose weight. Only 29 percent of the girls were overweight."

"At age thirteen, 53% of American girls are “unhappy with their bodies.” This grows to 78% by the time girls reach seventeen."

An airbrushed picture has lost of the beauty of its reality.  It shows no facial lines of emotion, no scars of surviving, no meals enjoyed, no children born. It reveals no stories or strength.  

Enjoy the reality of your body, or in the far more eloquent words of John Keats:

'Beauty is truth, truth beauty,—that is all
    Ye know on earth, and all ye need to know.'

Monday, July 26, 2010

Wedding Wardrobes

Miss Ashley Ann Bagley & Mr. Marcus Allen Nielson
(PS: Ashley is Andrew's baby sister and Marcus is best friend Christian Nielson's brother)

The Vintage Wedding Party:
Sterling (Best Man), Marcus (Groom), Ashley (Bride), Alex (Bridesmaid), Leisel (Maid of Honor), Kali
(Bridesmaid)




The Bohemian Wedding Dinner
(Complete with a full wardrobe change for the wedding party)


Dress Choice:
I followed the bride's lead with costume changes

Me & My Groom & Baby Billie (17 weeks)

Friday, July 23, 2010

Wedding Ensemble Choice


Apologies for the self-centered interruption, but Mr. Bagley's diminutive sister is wedding tomorrow, and I am absurdly undecided as to what frock to wear to her informal wedding dinner. 

Please assist by voting in the comments.  I'll be back with pictures and more body image posts next week!

Wednesday, July 21, 2010

Reality Revised: Comparisons


This is a really, real quote from a really, real lady:

"I've been that girl, flipping through magazines trying to find just one person who looked a little bit like me. And when I didn't find it I would start to think there's something wrong with the way that I looked."
Response to a Glamour article on real women's bodies. 

And here's the wistful dream:
 
Stop comparing: to your darling starlet, to the cover of your pet magazine, to yourself five years ago.  Cease staring at your sister's stomach to discern any trace of a stomach roll beneath her blouse.  Desist browsing weekly magazines with fresh pictures of celebrity cellulite.

External body validation is excessively volatile.  Build a buttress of impervious, internal confidence. Love your body exactly as it is, at this very instant. Cherish the strength of your legs, the curve of your neck, the grace of your fingers, the soft skin on your upper arms. No one else can tamper with your own admiration.

There is no universal ideal.  One set of proportions does not fit all.  One set of proportions will not even fit a single individual for an entire life.

Case in point: Marilyn vs. Audrey.  Who is more beautiful?  Marilyn self reported "a soft abdomen and short legs."  Audrey Hepburn was self conscious about her large feet and prominent ears.
M.M. (N.J.M.)
A.K.H.
Blonde Hair
Brown Hair
Blue Eyes
Brown Eyes
5 ft 5 in
5 ft 7 in
118-140 lbs
103 lbs
BMI 23.3
BMI 16.5
C Cup
A Cup
Vintage Size 10-12 Vintage size 2-4


Monday, July 19, 2010

Reality Revised


In 1995 a bunch of folks called up their lady friends and gathered some pencils, calculators, and fashion magazines. Each lady volunteer was given three minutes to peruse models in a fashion magazine, 70% of the hundreds of miss and missus surveyed felt depressed, guilty, and ashamed following the activity.

Cardigan Empire is dedicating its next several posts to undressing the layers of deception cloaking the reality of commercial and celebrity fashion, while heralding the heroism of the un-retouched form.

Friday, July 16, 2010

Travel Wear: Austin, Texas


A concert qualified outfit for Austin, Texas, live music capital of the world:

1) Knit:
Iron and hassle free, knits create convenient layers without the need of of an ironing board.

2) Separates:
Opt for skirts over dresses.  They're easier to mix and match into a larger variety of ensembles.





Wednesday, July 14, 2010

Travel Wear: Morcote, Switzerland


Tips for a Vespa adventure around Lake Lugano in Morcote, Switzerland:

1) Tie an outfit together:
Scarves make a sublime travel supplement. While taking up minimal room, they parlay instant panache to cocktail dresses and knits alike, and can tuck away your tresses when you opt for sightseeing over shampoo.

2) Shade your valuables:
Because there's nothing quixotic about squinting at the landscape before you.



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Monday, July 12, 2010

Travel Wear: Savannah, Georgia


 Tea in Savannah, Georgia:

1) Paper & Plastic:
While I prefer china and silver for eating, I couldn't travel without paper and plastic.  Use cut up cardboard boxes to subdivide your suitcase and pack categories of items in plastic bags, especially your shoes, it will save you from footprints on your silk chemise.

2) Wear and carry:
When it comes to hats, boots, or other particularly bulky or fragile items wear them as you travel.  This will protect them for disproportionate packing space and/or incidental crushings.


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