Fitting Room Friday: Bra Finale

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Once again, I rely on the bravery of other women to expose themselves for your benefit.

Now if you haven't purchased a new bra yet, I shed rueful tears for you and your lady eggs.

Below is my final effort to save clothes from an ill fitting foundation:

Stores with a Door:
Dillards: Huge selection, well trained associates, and regular sales.
Nordstrom: Superior service and visual aesthetic, but less options and markdowns than Dillards.

Clicking Shoppers:
Fig Leaves (cute options for all types of tender curves)
Bare Necessities (huge variety and regular markdowns)
Zafu (includes a survey for diagnosing your brassiere needs)

1 hundred 98 cents = your own intimates fashion look book cheat sheet.

Procure your own empire constitution. Your personalized fashion look book can include your own intimate styling rules of conduct and much more.

Nursing Flowers, A Bra Guide for Maternity & Postpartum

After creating and delivering an infant, you are pretty much She-rah: teaming with superhuman pro-creative powers, one being your mother's milk. But this strength must be controlled to ensure that its mysterious strength is not squandered indiscriminately. Lily Padz are a progressive pad that prevents rather than just absorbing. The lillies act as a seal on your mammo-milkers. This keeps them cool, dry, and comfortable. These three qualities can predict happy breasts, free of clogs and infections.

Next you'll need a supportive guise. Exposing your super powers recklessly is uncomfortable, possibly embarrassing, and potentially dangerous. Choose carefully between these options, allow your unique strengths to guide you.

Front closure, full exposure: fastens between the cups at the front. This type is easy to open but doesn't leave a lot of mystery to secret identities.

Zippy: Zippers sit poised for action under each cup. Discreet, easy to open and close, but zip lines can show through a closely fitting spandex top.

Cross & Slip: Lightweight and very comfortable. This style has a crossover front design so you can slip your maid out on a lightening fast impulse.

The Stretcher: No clasps, no buttons, no fastenings. This one's strength is completely internal. Even when disabled with exhaustion, you can pull the cup up and over to serve power to your offspring.

Hooks or Buttons: Your holster is snapped, fastened or buttoned to the shoulder strap, which can easily be released to allow the cup down. Ensure you buy one that exposes the whole of the breast's power and not just the nipple. The bra fabric left pressing on the breast may cause blocked milk ducts.

Regardless of which style you choose, below are important guidelines to keep in mind:

1. Avoid underwire: Underwires are like nursing kryptonite.  At least during the first few weeks following birth when the breats and milk flow are most volatile.  Underwire  can confine the growth changes in breast size and shape during pregnancy, and restrict milk flow during breast feeding.
2. Quick Draw: Try it on and make sure you can unfasten, unzip, unclip, or slip as necessary with one hand.
3. Soft Cottons: Even if the cup has some lace or alternative fabric on the exterior, the interior should be lined with seamless soft cotton. Anything else can chafe your sensipples and may not keep them cool, dry and free of infections.
4. Perfect fit: Your getup shouldn't bind the breast in any way that will interfere with milk flow. This means wearing a regular bra or one that doesn't fit isn't an option. Not only because of the sad visual state it leaves your breasts in, but also because it can inhibit your milking powers all together, replacing it with crippling pain.

Eventually the power of wielding your mother's milk may begin to weigh on you. And it may be time to surrender the mantle for a season. At this point your lactical powers will retract leaving the skin somewhat looser and lower than before. Fear not, you are not defenseless, just a reborn heroine in need of a new costume. Something with a strongly supportive band and perhaps underwire.

Some super-moms find that one of their breasts was more powerful than the others. If you feel ill proportioned with power post weaning, fit the bra to your most vigorous side. Then if you choose you can add a "cookie" or removable pad to the cup of the less full breast.

In the mean time, explore appropriate uniforms for both Claketta Kents and Super Women.

Ample Blossoms, a Bra Guide for Full Figures

Calling all voluptuous vixens, flourishing somewhere subsequent to position 4 of the English alphabet. You stand no chance of being transposed with the wall or the flower pressed up against it. No, your extravagantly garnished torso is an unmistakably glitzy hallmark.

You require no additional ornamentation, because you come equipped with the ultimate ornaments. Your fill your blouses and dresses with excitement and glamour. Echoing the silver screen silhouettes of Sophia Loren and Marilyn Monroe, or modern sirens like Salma Hayek.

And because of it, gravity can not keep its greedy hands off of your anatomical dowry. Your back must battle ferociously to keep your soldiers somewhere in the vicinity of your bustline, and at some point in your life, you've probably been temporarily scarred by the indent of a bra strap.

Cower no more, there are weapons of refuge. Below is a breakdown of some of the key points in your arsenal.

But first, lets discuss your Commander's Intent. If you and your bra accomplish nothing else , you must accomplish this. Your breasts should rest like little soldiers half way between your shoulder and elbow. They must not be allowed to do reconnaissance inside your armpits or scout along your navel. They should be positioned straight forward, at attention.

This mission is not without its costs. But this is undeniably the most important item in your wardrobe, and considering cost per wear, it is definitely worth the investment. One bra is not going to be appropriate for every offense, but a series of wise investments can also attack 10 lbs, 10 years, and at least 10 gaps between blouse buttons. Venus below is your bra armory.



If you trot into Victoria Secret, you will be offered some type of demi push up bra; that is the secret behind Victoria. Padding has its place, but they are not the appropriate supplier for you. What you need is full coverage. One option is the lined, formed cup. These babies hold their shape even when not loaded. And they are going to give you the smoothest look under t-shirts or other fitted garments. I highly recommend Le Mystere for shape and durability. It comes in a plethora of sizes and the Raspberry color is currently on sale for $29.99.



For maximum support, you actually need a seamed bra. Bra seams are a point of strength so don't let this lacy little Freya bra fool you. With three seams, it is a dynamo power house of comfort and support. And some ladies aren't properly cupped by a pre-molded bra. Seamed bras are the mothers and grandmothers of molded bras, and they come with a wealth of wisdom and experience. Get this one for $49.99.




Now, there are times for button up blouses which means there are times for minimizers. The cups of a minimizer bra are designed to reduce the projection of the breasts. Instead of points, the breast is held in a firm mound. The cup shape is designed with a wider diameter and a shorter projection. Your malleable breast tissue is flattened and moved toward your arms, center cleavage, up your chest and down towards your waist. In general, a minimizer bra will reduce your breast circumference as follows: B cup reduces 1/2", C cup reduces 3/4", D cup reduces 1", DD cup and larger reduces 1-1/4" or possibly more. But don't think that you can buy a smaller size for more minimizing effect. All you will get is an ill-fitting bra.

The other important aspect of this option is the lack of underwire. Contrary to popular belief the underwire is not an essential element for bra support. For some, especially for those with curious wanderers, the underwire pokes into the sides of the tissue. This eliminates the problem without compromising support.

Now, for your outer offense, in front of your breasted bastion. Your optimum option is actually fitted, demi shirts. Now don't misunderstand. I am not recommending over exposure. In fact all the bras I've recommended won't permit it. What I'm recommending is a modest scoop neck, v neck, or square neck. Anything that exposes your lovely clavicles. A high chunky neck can quickly turn into a second chin. And covering up a large bust creates the "Mommy Jean" effect: a formidable, uninterrupted line of flesh. Instead, break into up into visually consumable pieces.

Now go, I've given you several affordable options, shop and protect. Arm your army of two.

Petite Blooms, A Bra Guide for Small Chests

While plenteous peonies may not be able to escape public pageantry, your delicate blooms have their own subtle set of advantages.

Their are several sources of attraction on this earth, and not all of them are rewarding. Take for example the interplay between the earth itself and a matron's chest. Recall that gravity is the force of attraction between two objects. The planet Earth acting as paramount, pulling its inhabitants and in this case, their terra tangeant bosoms towards its prodigious center. But ahh...., not all gravities are created equal. Gravity's force is proportional to the product of the participating masses. Less masseous bosoms = less powerful gravity. And should your upper trunk reach into celestial heights, gravity's effect continues to diminish as the square of the distance increases. So whether we're talking about literal or metaphorical apples, Newton's law applies to your benefit. Your back need only grapple casually against the grabby earth resulting in superior comfort and sprightly shape.

The lightly endowed pixie, can jump on a trampoline or sprint on pavement the second she slips off her pumps. AA & A chests have spontaneous benefits over the latter letters of the alphabet.

Now leaving the practical aside, let's address aesthetics. Honor the elegance of a subtly lined body, over whose angles certain garments drape more finely. Sometimes va's and voom's interrupt the architecture of a garment. If you don't believe me, believe the gamine effect of Audrey Hepburn or Natalie Portman.

Leaving our strongly supported case for delicate elegance, lets discuss proper dressings. The truth is this, there is not a single bra that will work in every occasion. That applies to every letter in the mammary family. Below are suggestions for building the nymphet's bra trousseau.


You alone can obtain all the support you need from a diaphanous soft cup like the Soft Illusions Bralette. And contrary to what your Auntie tells you, you can in fact wear this to full allure. Particularly if you have narrow hips balanced against the line of a narrow bust. The smooth seamless jersey will divulge nothing of your sensitive secrets below. And if Auntie needs another counterpoint to "you'll never attract a man in a training bra," tell her the seduction of transparency can be just as flirtatious as bulging contours.



Now suppose you are at the opera in your fancy schmancy dress. As you dawn your equally fancy shmancy bra, remember the term "balconette" comes from gentleman in the balcony of a theater looking down upon ladies. A balconette bra had the advantage of invisibility from above. With this in mind you might reconsider the depth of your neckline.

But regardless of what you choose to expose to the upper seats, the horizontal line of a demi cup combined with underwire structure will give you lift and expose what gravity has little hold upon.

If your ultimate goal is overall volume, leave the bralette and balonette in the top drawer and pull out your push up bra. Auntie is now smiling. And it's true the plunge on the Lucia Bra with an immediate seam between the cups creates maximum volume and decollete. And if you feel like your bust is disproportionate to your hip line this may be particularly helpful for you.

Now, what to put on top of your bra? Your optimum option is actually full coverage. This isn't the same as hiding. The fabrics should still make contact with your form. What a high neckline creates is an uninterrupted line of your ethereal body bends. Which is far more tempting than gaping overexposure. Try boat necks, crew necks, turtle necks, basically aim for the vicinity of your neck.

My nymphets, embrace your dainty femininity. And may I suggest indulging in some virtual shopping at Lula Lu, which specializes in petite lingerie.

Fitting Room Friday: Professional Pairs Demonstrate Proper Bra Fitting

There is no way I'd exploit the intimate relationship between a dear follower and their bra. So I'm leaving today's fitting room Friday to the mammie models.


Enjoy the serenely steamy background music, compliments of Simply Yours.

See you next week when we'll be addressing all your special bra requests.

Your Bouquet

small chest
big chest
young chest
old chest
high chest
low chest
narrow chest
broad chest

So far I have researched the diaphanous end of department stores, bonny boutique shops, lacy lingerie showrooms, and every dainty collection short of the ones marked by electric blushing signs.

My report is complete, and I believe it to be comprehensive. But if you and your blooms have a special request please send it to me via comment so I can address it directly.

Chic Six

We interrupt our talk of unmentionables with a truly mentionable proclamation:
Happy Birthday Jane Bronwyn, you fierce fashionista

Love,
Godmother & The Wizard

Alternate Bust Measurement Technique

In case the first round of measurements went awry, try this alternate. (It works particularly well for narrow torsos). Remember measurements are just a starting point. If your eggs are cracking over the sides of your diagnosed selection, or cradled in a wrinkly deflated nest, adjust your prescription. And pay attention to fit over numbers.

First remove any fluffing or flattening agents, and collect a 30 second favor from a close lady friend. Of if you choose, offer your husband a favor and let him help.

STEP 1: Band Size
Exhale and measure around your torso, start just under your arms then lead the measuring tape to meet at the top of your nest. Go like Goldilocks, not too tight, not too loose, just right. If the number is even, then that is your band size (i.e. 34"). If your measurement is an odd number then add 1". For example, if you measured 31" then round up to 32".



STEP 2: Determining Cup Size
Using a measuring tape, measure around your body across the fullest part of your bust. Again, not too tight, not too loose. To calculate your cup size, subtract your band size from Step 1 from your cup measurement.




The following chart provides sizing details.

>1"......AA
1"......A
2"......B
3"......C
4"......D
5".......DD/E
6"........DDD/F
G".........FF/G

Most manufacturers assume a 1" difference between cup sizes but some use 1½" or even 2", in other words, try it on.

If you haven't measured yet, for shame. I'm serious - I won't divulge the secret code of unmentionables until you have fresh measurements.

How to Measure your Bra Size

Another annual measure of Valentines Day has been archived. I trust that you overindulged in coquettish baby dolls and tenacious corsets if that pacified your preference.

But now it is time to tissue our holiday dainties, in favor of a sincerely supportive breed of lingerie. Some do not have a penchant for their underlings. Leaving what they believe to be an entirely private relationship to stain, stretch, and literally decompose on their body

My dear ones, these are your intimates. They cradle you at your most vulnerable sectors. Although only a diminutive division will view them directly, all can perceive the effect of this relationship. The foundation of fashion must be approached earnestly and accurately.

Here's the beastly truth: there is an 80% chance that you're wearing the wrong bra size. Your band is likely too big and/or your cup size is presumably too small. Even if you were wearing the right bra size last Valentines day, weight shifts, pregnancy, nursing, and age may have transformed your needs.

At this point, I must endorse measuring. (And if you haven't measured your body type yet, proceed while you're disrobed and in possession of soft measuring tape)

1. Preparation
Don your best fitting, unpadded bra. Minimizers and sports bras are not proper candidates. This bra should nest your lady eggs approximately half way between your shoulder and elbow. If possible find a confidential friend (mother, sister, daughter, husband, levelheaded lingerie associate) to assist you.


2. Band Size
Exhale all the air from your lungs and measure carefully around your ribcage, directly under your bust (too high and it will be too big, too low and it will be too small). This measurement should be taken as small as possible, with the tape parallel to the floor.

Take this number and round up or down to the nearest whole "even" inch (i/e divisible by 2).

Example: 33 3/8", round up to 34.

3. Cup Size
Standing straight, with your arms at your side, wrap the circumference of the fullest part of your bust while keeping the tape measure parallel with the floor.

The tape measure should be just touching, not binding. If one of your mademoiselles is significantly larger, pad the smaller counterpart to make it even before taking your measurement.

Round up or down to the nearest inch. Then subtract your band size measurement from this second measurement. The difference can be translated using the chart below to a cup size.

Example: 42" - 34" = 7" -> G Cup Size.

 But wait... this is not the final determinate of our lady eggs.  Thank WWII ideals and marketing, but bra manufacturers conceived of the idea of adding inches to the actual measurement so the resulting measurement would be closer to the artificial ideal (36-24-36).  Therefore, all our bras are mis-sized to stroke our lady egg egos.  Luckily, there is an easy way to translate your real bra size into vanity-sized bras.   

34 G = (Hop 1) 36 F = (Hop 2) 38 DD = (Hop 3) 36 D

These sizes are equivalent to each other.  As your band size increases, the cup size also increases which is why we diminish the cup size with each translation to keep the proportions appropriate.  Generally a hop of three points is easy to find and comfortable to wear.

Ta-da: band size, cup size, abracada...bra size. True, it is only a starting point, but stay with us. the magic continues this week as we diagnose the right intimate for your unique intimates. 

And remember when you try on the bra, try it on by snapping together the widest set hook and eyes.  This will ensure that you will have room to make your bra smaller as your bra stretches with time.

Signature Style: Traditional

Today is Mrs. Stephanie Court's finale on Cardigan Empire's Signature Style week. She bows and exits the stage looking timeless and traditional.

Nothing says classic like a crisp white button-up; every woman should have at least one in her closet. While the Sluice Gate Blouse meets the basic requirements of the menswear classic, it is utterly ladylike. Lightly lined cotton and a ruffled placket speak of nothing but maturity and sophistication.

A clean waist and classic pleats on a neutral poplin. These elements give the Cornelia Skirt undying fashion endurance.

Now I think Mrs. Stephanie needs to divulge her signature style preference. And please, leave a comment telling us about yours.

Remember, you can crossbreed two or more styles to create something unique to yourself. Perhaps you're a modern romantic or a traditional bohemian, but the overall look should stay consistent. Your aim is singular not schizophrenic.

Fancy yourself traditional? 1 hundred 98 cents = your own traditional Signature Style fashion look book cheat sheet.

Desire something deeper? Reserve a 60 minute virtual shopping session to compile a portfolio of uniquely personal ensembles. Rather than teetering between blasé and flagrant, relax knowing you will have an expert to offer informed opinions, creative outfitting advice, and savvy shopping experience. Sessions initiate with a signature style discovery interview.

Signature Style: Dramatic

Arouse the last scene in Grease from your cerebral archive. Previously demure, romantic Sandy dawns at the amusement park: leather jacket, black stretch jumpsuit, red high heels. Enjoy a parallel transformation as Mrs. Stephanie Court becomes Diva Dramatic.

The vibrant Shadowed Valley Tee will quickly dispel shadows from the darkest corners, allowing Divas to shine in all their radiance.

The close, clean line of Joe's Cigarette Kennedy is a perfect contrast to the top's draping. They end at the ankle, obviously inviting a sexy pair of heels.

Any Diva would feel naked without the appropriate pair of shoes, and these Hype Pumps by Naughty Monkey are the perfect conclusion to a casually smoldering outfit.

Unleash your inner diva? 1 hundred 98 cents = your own Diva Signature Style fashion look book cheat sheet.

Desire something deeper? Reserve a 60 minute virtual shopping session to compile a portfolio of uniquely personal ensembles. Rather than teetering between blasé and flagrant, relax knowing you will have an expert to offer informed opinions, creative outfitting advice, and savvy shopping experience. Sessions initiate with a signature style discovery interview.

Signature Style: Bohemian

If you chafe under the restrictions of the bourgeoisie. If you ache to cut yourself free from the bonds of class and structures of culture. If you see romance in poverty and beauty in the untouched innocence of youth, perhaps you are a bohemian. Or maybe you prefer organic fabrics with world inspired details. Either way, Stephanie Court now casts herself in the role of free, plebeian spirit, an exemplary bohemian.

Peasant's cotton smocked and stitched with roses in earthy hues. The Bistrica Top is loosely structured and richly ethnic.

The Drawstring Crops provide a plant based neutral against which the peasant top can bloom.

And friendly bohemians, if you have not yet visited this little treasure trove yet, please rectify this oversight immediately.

Do you fancy yourself a bohemian? 1 hundred 98 cents = your own Bohemian Signature Style fashion look book cheat sheet.

Desire something deeper? Reserve a 60 minute virtual shopping session to compile a portfolio of uniquely personal ensembles. Rather than teetering between blasé and flagrant, relax knowing you will have an expert to offer informed opinions, creative outfitting advice, and savvy shopping experience. Sessions initiate with a signature style discovery interview.

Signature Style: Modern

R. W. Emerson taught, "Every sweet has its sour; every evil its good." R. W. Bagley appends, "every romantic has its modern." And Stephanie Court revolves sharply about face to showcase the modern side of fashion.




The Snowswept Dress is a study in minimalism. With a perfectly constructed silhouette, the profile stands solitary without an extraneous button to ruin the impact.

The exemplary architecture of the Great Lengths Cardi is cleanly constructed in pragmatic jersey cotton.

The abstract pattern of the Bobbin Bunch Necklace adds just enough quirky interest to an utterly unfussy ensemble.

Are your tastes modern? 1 hundred 98 cents = your own Modern Signature Style fashion look book cheat sheet.

Desire something deeper? Reserve a 60 minute virtual shopping session to compile a portfolio of uniquely personal ensembles. Rather than teetering between blasé and flagrant, relax knowing you will have an expert to offer informed opinions, creative outfitting advice, and savvy shopping experience. Sessions initiate with a signature style discovery interview.

Signature Style: Romance

Happy Valentines Week! I count my affections for you five-fold, and offer a quintuplet of fitting room treats as tokens of my sentiments. To start? Of course Romantic Style with delightful Stephanie Court. Bon Mode!




The Waiting For Poems Sheath fancifully embroiders romance from bustline to hem. The fairytale is only interrupted briefly by a coral sash accenting a feminine waist.

There's no mistaking the quixotic affair of crochet caps on the delicate sleeves of the Neapolitan Cropped Cardigan.

Are you a romantic? 1 hundred 98 cents = your own Romantic Signature Style fashion look book cheat sheet.

Desire something deeper? Reserve a 60 minute virtual shopping session to compile a portfolio of uniquely personal ensembles. Rather than teetering between blasé and flagrant, relax knowing you will have an expert to offer informed opinions, creative outfitting advice, and savvy shopping experience. Sessions initiate with a signature style discovery interview.

Fitting Room Friday: Signature Style

Imagine if your perfume altered every time you diffused the scent on the dainty side of your wrist? Today musky oriental, tomorrow fruity citrus, yesterday a full floral aroma. Convivial & unexpected undoubtedly, but this capricious bouquet could efficiently escort you to a scented misstep. In this, as in most cases, it is far better to opt in favor of consistency.

Now imagine we could distill your fashion essence into a fetching, dainty bottle. Would your overall style issue dependable or erratic?

The primary benefits of a consistent style are first, a visually recognized identity. And second, an increased ability to mix and match between the different selections in your closet.

Speaking to identity, most of us wake up to the same body and consciousness every day. There is only one of you, entirely distinct and unique. Unless you are a Siamese twin, which makes the two of you even more unique, though not as distinct. Your signature style, like your Lady Hancock, should help to distinguish you as an individual. Your clothing should be a seamless extension of your inner ego, your super ego, and maybe a little of a tamed id. A parlay to your cohesive soul's center, for the "best dressed person is the closest thing to naked." Meaning your style should mix seamlessly with your nucleus.

Elementary education has shown us that like things conglomerate. Mixing and matching becomes far simpler when there are kindred (although not exact echos) of items in your wardrobe. While it is perfectly acceptable and commendable to create a unique hybrid of style, all your own, it should feel reliable but not repetitious on a daily basis.

We will continue with major categories of Signature Stylings next week. I have booked the rare and beautiful Mrs. Stephanie Court all week for Fitting Room appearances.

For now, I present the darling of my home: Miss Maybelline Dixie. She will illustrate the common components of a personal vogue: hairstyle, accessories, and coming full circle, scent. For as dear Coco declared, "A woman who doesn't wear perfume is nothing."

Miss Mabel Dixie's accessories were procured at Pepper Place Design, original designs by Miss Amy Barragan.

I Heart Valentines

Looking For Something Lovely To Do
To Celebrate Valentine's Day?

Saturday, February 7th, 12 - 4pm 166 W Main St, Mesa
Grab the hands of a few bosom friends and meet us at Blissful Living Studio ...

Lots of holiday goodies to make~
chocolates & treats for you to partake~

Trunk Shows:
Shelly Beson, Beth Quinn, Tricia Samsal

Complimentary Lingerie Styling Class with Reachel at 12:30 pm
We will be discussion very functional dainties and underpinnings. Because nothing is more alluring their a well shaped foundation.


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Style Evolution

Mother Winters had to check out the contents of wardrobe inventory because certain toddlers pined to wear multiple ensembles at once. A single frock could only be made better when layered by yet another frock, and possibly another, and if needed yet another . . . and another?

Anyways, I began fancying frippery in the early years of my minority. And since then, I have rambled through manifold style transformations.

The joy of fresh white Easter gloves and matching hats, progressed into a trademark twinned plaid skirt and blouse paired under an embellished cardigan.

High school was a fashion experimentation epoch. Freshman dramatics involved an outfit Violet Beauregard would have envied: Velvet indigo jumper, matte indigo stockings, over a glossy indigo shell. And the Rocky Inspired ensemble, a sporty black and white sport suit with matching trainers. Believe me, they were cute in their own quirky way.

During my junior and senior "Trump" years, I worked at a financial firm and wore a business suit four days a week. Usually succinct sheaths with long jackets and pockets where I kept my very own business cards.

As an adult, we are all called on to blossom into our own brand of vogue: something consistent, something distinct, something signature.

So come and bloom. We shall reflect on the history of fashion, diverging into five breeds of style, and finally developing our own signature style.

In the meantime, post a comment about one of your most memorable signature ensembles.

Cheerio contessas